Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Nobody's Perfect

Nobody's perfect, you just have to accept that. I know it sounds cliche, but that is the simple truth.

Our lives are surrounded by a constant stream of complaints. By friends, by family, by ourself. Non-stop criticsizing, non-stop blaming. We always blame people for what they haven't do enough, for their bad point. "He/she is too irresponsible." "He/she doesn't care for other people." But maybe behind that irresponsiblity he/she is incredibly helpful, and those irresponsiblity is caused by momentarily memory lapse? Maybe you are labelling him/her for one tiny mistake that he/she has never done before? Wouldn't that be a little bit too unfair? I'm not saying we shouldn't crictisize people at all, people are meant to grow, and improve, and change after all. Still, we must leave them space for breathing, we couldn't expect people to change within 24hr. And on the other hand, we have to accept criticism from other people as well. Although no matter how much we change, we still wouldn't achieve perfection, at least we have tried our best, and at least we are now a better person than who we were.

Oh my god, I just sounded like a 50-year old woman. Maybe I should stop now.
So much time had wasted for typing that small piece of article. What I was actually trying to express is that how we always talk bad about other people, or even close friends behind their back, and we really should stop it because someone is doing the exact same thing about us as well. But who ever could resist a juicy bit of gossip shared over the cafeteria table, especially if they are about their foes?

And that just concludes 'nobody's perfect.'

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